Cognitive Distortions
Cognitive distortions are habitual, inaccurate patterns of thinking that make a situation look worse, more certain or more personal than the evidence supports. Psychiatrist Aaron Beck described them while developing cognitive therapy, and David Burns popularised a widely used list in his book Feeling Good. Common examples include all-or-nothing thinking, catastrophising, mind reading and personalisation. Everyone uses them sometimes, including capable leaders.
Aaron Beck identified cognitive distortions and David Burns made them widely known
In the 1960s, Aaron Beck noticed that people's automatic thoughts were often biased in predictable ways, and he built cognitive therapy around examining them. The Beck Institute continues that work today.
David Burns, who trained with Beck, turned the idea into a practical list of ten thinking traps in Feeling Good (1980). That list is why terms like "catastrophising" and "should statements" are now part of everyday leadership language.
Common cognitive distortions sound ordinary at work
| Thinking trap | What it can sound like at work |
|---|---|
| All-or-nothing thinking | "If this launch is not perfect, it is a failure." |
| Catastrophising | "One bad quarter and my career here is over." |
| Mind reading | "The CEO went quiet, so she thinks my proposal is weak." |
| Personalisation | "The team missed the deadline because I am a poor manager." |
| Should statements | "A senior leader should never need help." |
| Discounting the positive | "The good feedback was just politeness." |
| Labelling | "He is difficult" instead of "he pushed back twice this week." |
Leaders use the idea by noticing, naming and testing their thoughts
Imagine a CFO whose board presentation draws one sharp question. On the drive home she decides the board has lost confidence in her. Testing that thought, she recalls that the same director questions every presenter. The guides on how to stop overthinking decisions and how to quiet your inner critic build on this habit.
Notice the reaction
A sudden drop in mood or a spike in tension is often the first clue that a distorted thought has arrived.
Name the trap
Labelling it, for example "that is mind reading", creates a little distance from the thought.
Test it against evidence
Ask what you actually know, what you are assuming, and what a fair colleague would say.
Choose the next action
Act on the evidence: ask the CEO a question rather than rewriting the proposal at midnight.
Coaching works with thinking habits; it is not therapy
Cognitive distortions come from a clinical tradition, so the boundary matters. Coaching is not therapy or medical treatment. It works with performance, thinking habits and behaviour in a working context, which is how mindset coaching for leaders uses these ideas.
If distorted thinking is part of persistent anxiety, low mood or difficulty functioning, speak to a doctor or a licensed mental health professional. Coaching can sit alongside that care. The article on coaching vs therapy explains the difference.
Rula Husseini is an Executive Leadership & Mindset Coach (ICF PCC) based in Manama, Bahrain, with 26+ years in leadership, HR and talent development and 4,500+ coaching hours. She coaches executives, emerging leaders and teams in Arabic and English, in person and online.
Credentials and training →Frequently asked questions
Are cognitive distortions a mental health condition?
No. They are common thinking patterns that everyone experiences. They become a concern when they are persistent and linked to distress, in which case a doctor or licensed mental health professional is the right first contact.
Is challenging a cognitive distortion the same as reframing?
They are related. Challenging a distortion tests whether a thought is accurate; reframing changes the frame you view a situation through. Leaders often use the first to make room for the second.
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